Do u know when a person starts making his own life successfull .a person attains the peak of success only when he follows his inner heart and soul,only when he does what he likes.
when he starts listening to others and start following others ,there is no gaurentee that he will attain the success,because who know's that other people are also well wishers for him
when he starts depending on others this proves that he has no inner life,due to which there is no freedom leftover ad he cant make his own decisions anymore
when he is not able to make his own decisions anymore what is the use of living his life
he automatically becomes a slave to his sorroundings and looses his hope in life