winning is not everything. the one who wins get to know how good he is but the one ho doesnt gets something very interesting....experience. that person learns his flaws the first time. it makes him bettr as the nxt time he does not repeat his mistake. some people always tend to win, but that does not mean that they will win always. they dont even become the most successful, not always. those who loose r not permanent loosers. they can also be gr8 if they have the desire to achieve.